Why are we so hung up on “it’s someone else’s fault?”
Why are we continually giving our power away?
Why are we so stuck on the grievance instead of forgiveness?
What are we doing with our life to move forward?
What is happening that we allow this situation to affect us?
What are we doing to change that?
When are we going to allow this situation and move on?
When are we going to forgive this and get our power back?
When are we going to be sick to death of our negative story?
How do you get your power back?
How do you move on outa there?
How do you become who you are supposed to be?
It comes at me everyday from different sources. I’m in debt, I hate my body, if only I hadn’t ever met that person, my mother didn’t love me, my mother doesn’t understand me, my childhood was full of trauma, I can’t move on because of “THIS”.
There is a way to move on, not easy, but there is a way.
How do I know that?
I can hear you all saying but, but, but, and yes, but, I do know you have gone through stuff. Some of it horrible. Some of it undeserved. Some of it punishable by law. Some of it you think is unforgettable.
AND IT IS! UNFORGETTABLE. BUT, NOT, UNFORGIVABLE.
I can say this honestly because I was molested as a child, attempted rape by a cousin and an older female who molested me at every opportunity, a traumatic divorce that also included rape to try to control me and make me not leave, a childhood filled with memories of a mother who struggled mentally and could not relate to us. Somehow, I knew that if I stayed in any of this I would not find myself again.
So, where did it happen for you that you are stuck in?
Where is the moment in time that held you, stopped you?
Where do YOU want to be other than in this crap?
I am here to testify you can be anywhere you want to be. We all think we are tied up by our situations, emotions, thoughts, etc., but we aren’t.
WE ARE HELD CAPTIVE BY OUR THOUGHTS
Our thinking tells us we are victims, and takes away our ability to allow someone else to be suck full, crappy, needy, mentally ill, or just a persecutor. We tell ourselves we are lacking when indeed it is generally the other person projecting this upon us.
Recently, and before that, I understood I had grown up in disfunction. I never recognized that, and that other than finding God, I would be broken, not just damaged. Then the series of molestation, attempted rape and rape happened. Could I use all of this or any of this to be a victim? Yup, just not my thought pattern or the story I wanted about who, what, when, where and how I am as a functioning, resilient, powerful human being.
THAT IS THE KEY
WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?
DO YOU THINK YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS?
ARE YOU AN OVERCOMER?
DO YOU WANT TO DUMP THIS CRAP?
AND WHY DO YOU WANT TO?
AND WHEN DO YOU WANT TO?
AND HOW DO YOU WANT TO?
AND WHERE ARE YOU GOING AFTER THIS CRAP?
I know some of you are in defensive mode right now, because that is comfortable. You overeat, maybe over drink, maybe pretend, fake it, have depression, or the other side, swamping your memories with activities of any sort. Can I tell you the real secret?
IT DOESN”T WORK
To be frank, short and summing up, you have not only lost your passion, but can’t find your purpose for living. Put this all in perspective.
DO YOU WANT TO STAY HERE?
DO YOU WANT TO GET BACK YOUR POWER?
DO YOU WANT YOUR POWER TO SLAY YOUR SITUATION?
DO YOU WANT TO HAVE A POSITIVE, AMAZING STORY?
WILL YOU LET YOUR STORY GO?
CAN YOU WRITE A NEW ONE?
YOU CAN, I AM POSITIVE PROOF OF THAT.
I am living proof of the Law Of Allowance. I can teach you to walk in this and set everything loose. All of that thinking, and condemnation. All gone, because allowing is unconditional love, and yes it is learned, not expected or assumed. It comes from the deepest parts of our soul, mind, and heart that have been hurt. It sets us free to be the part of any relationship that we choose to be. We do not have to accept hurt, we can allow. We can decide on our part of any part of the friendship, or bond, and stick to that. It is a two sided decision.
I will tell you if you cannot allow, then you cannot attract, or walk in the places you want to. I really hope this explains somewhat why you are in the rut, going round and round, with all of it.